Wednesday, December 30, 2020

Is being Perfect Makes you Happy?


Life is doing the best we can, to have a house to live, a food we eat, a job, to complete our bucket list, make a to do list, earn more, and become successful. Being perfect doesn’t give you happiness and being happy doesn’t make your life perfect. Perfection lies behind your perception.

They say money makes you happy. People who are rich have a mansion, a nice car, a luxurious vacation, yet their relationship with other people failed.

They say a man who married his dream girl and lived with her doesn’t have a happily ever after.

You cannot say a perfect life is what you are longing for.  Every day we face different situation that teaches us and it is our stepping stone to learn and make our life better.

We have to accept that:

·        Your to do list will never be complete. You will complete your first 5 or 10 to do list then another set will be added.

·        Some things will not go according to your plan always

·        Please tell me if someone has a perfect life? No one ever.

·        You’re doing the best you can. You will be fine with what you have.

·        Your happiness is all that matters. If you are happy of what you have done, then be it. If you are happy of what you got, then accept it.

Happiness is a choice. You will find yourself feeling miserable when you did not reach the kind of happiness you want to be. You cannot be as happy as your neighbor if you saw him having his new car in his garage. Just be happy and everything follows perfectly in this imperfect world.