Mistakes made is a Decision?

"A Mistake made more than once is a Decision" by Paulo Coelho

A simple example of this is when you have an exam and you need to review the day before the exam. You have mistakes and your teacher showed how to make it right. Your teacher gave you another chance to redo the exam yet you still made your own solution to the wrong answers you made. This mistake is your decision. You have a chance to make it right yet you still did the same mistake from the past.

Mistakes are a part of everyone’s learning process and it is up to us on how we can handle this. It is natural for a human being to make mistakes and it does come to us unexpectedly. In every situation we have, we must admin every mistake we commit. Admitting it will definitely help us understand why we did mistake and how to overcome this mistake.

From a quote “One is enough, Two is too much”, we keep on making the same mistake but we don’t realize why this became a cycle and part of our life. Let us just make an action to make it right.

Saying No without Explaining

 Sometimes you should learn to say NO without explaining.

For some it is so hard to reject other people because you are thinking they may get mad. Why you have to think of what they feel if they don’t even think of what you really feel. No need to explain if they don’t even tend to understand you.

Think of yourself

They say you are selfish if you only think of yourself. Love yourself before you extend to others. How can you give a piece of what you have if you don’t have enough for yourself? That is the best thing to think of.

Time is Gold

Be wise enough to think how much time you will consume when you say YES to everyone. You have to exert your effort, your time, and of course sometime your money just because you already commit yourself.

Set priorities

Is this an important matter that you need to focus on? Do you need to prioritize this because you said YES to someone and need to do it for them. Saying No is one of your priority to do to make things better for you and for everyone.

Saying No to others is at the other hand saying Yes to yourself. Be responsible enough to think before you agree to disagree. Manage every situation you face and you will understand why you rejected someone or something being offered to you.

Saying No is being YOU!

Taking your time will also let you think that you don’t need to explain what you really want and need. It’s ok not to get that call from a friend who ask for you to say Yes. You have the right to say No anyway. This does not mean you are mean. This only shows that you have your own time to check on yourself before checking on their lives.

They tell you to be YOURSELF.. Then they judge you!

They tell you to be YOURSELF… Then they judge you!

People want you to be your true version of you then will definitely judge you. We live in an imperfect world. You don’t need to prove to other people who you are and what you really want to be. It is just a matter of how people will accept you for what you show them.

These are the only simple things you should do:

Be kind

No matter how the world is rough on you, always stay humble and kind to everyone. People will judge you anyway. You cannot please everyone but at least you showed them good character of you.

Be Yourself

You don’t need to pretend to be someone else just to be part of a circle of friends. You don’t need someone to tell you what you have to so they will not judge you. Be true to yourself and you will find people who will like you and genuinely would like to be with you.

Think differently

People will judge you with they see and what they only know. Being yourself is not about everyone liking you. It is about liking yourself. It is about you who want to show the world of being a normal you and that makes you happy.

Haters gonna hate

They will judge you until they want. You spend your life pleasing everyone not to judge you but you cannot fool yourself your whole life living like this.  As long as you are happy of what you are doing and not hurting anyone, you are good at it.

Karma has no menu you got served what you deserve

Happiness is a journey, not a destination.

I never dreamed about success, I worked for it!