Don't compare yourself to others, compare it from your past.

Don't compare yourself to others, compare it from your past.

You know it is easy to say but hard to do. If you always see others they have better life, better house, better car, or any better things in their life you always compare them to yourself.

Comparing makes you feel unloved and unhappy.  It leads to hating other people or hating yourself. The same as focusing on your past makes you feel sad. But it is better to focus on your past, present and future instead of thinking of other people’s lives.

The more you focus on your own, the more you are in control.

Mind you own

When you are focused on yourself, you will realize better ideas to grow. Instead of wasting your time comparing yourself to others and some copying them, spend time investing and make yourself busy on earning more skills and money so you can be better you.

Accept your past

Accept your past so you can move on for your future. Instead of fighting and resisting things you cannot change, let it be in peace. Make your past as your inspiration to grow and nourish it as you come along your path to your success. Make right decision and do not make the same mistakes you made from the past.  Embrace your past and think these are pages and chapters of your life that made you stronger today.

Comparison into Inspiration

Make comparing in a positive way. You cannot remove comparing to others but you can turn it into a positive perspective to make a positive result. If you compare your lifestyle to someone you know, you can say I can do it too. Make every single steps of your life as simple as possible so it won’t complicate you in the long run.

Focus.. focus.. focus

Focus on your career, your family, your hobby and also your belongings. This will guide you to stand out from others you are trying comparing yourself. Being who you are matters. Unless you are not hurting other people, just go on and make everyday a better you.