Saying No without Explaining

 Sometimes you should learn to say NO without explaining.

For some it is so hard to reject other people because you are thinking they may get mad. Why you have to think of what they feel if they don’t even think of what you really feel. No need to explain if they don’t even tend to understand you.

Think of yourself

They say you are selfish if you only think of yourself. Love yourself before you extend to others. How can you give a piece of what you have if you don’t have enough for yourself? That is the best thing to think of.

Time is Gold

Be wise enough to think how much time you will consume when you say YES to everyone. You have to exert your effort, your time, and of course sometime your money just because you already commit yourself.

Set priorities

Is this an important matter that you need to focus on? Do you need to prioritize this because you said YES to someone and need to do it for them. Saying No is one of your priority to do to make things better for you and for everyone.

Saying No to others is at the other hand saying Yes to yourself. Be responsible enough to think before you agree to disagree. Manage every situation you face and you will understand why you rejected someone or something being offered to you.

Saying No is being YOU!

Taking your time will also let you think that you don’t need to explain what you really want and need. It’s ok not to get that call from a friend who ask for you to say Yes. You have the right to say No anyway. This does not mean you are mean. This only shows that you have your own time to check on yourself before checking on their lives.