Sometimes you should learn to say NO without explaining.
For some it
is so hard to reject other people because you are thinking they may get mad.
Why you have to think of what they feel if they don’t even think of what you
really feel. No need to explain if they don’t even tend to understand you.
Think of
yourself
They say
you are selfish if you only think of yourself. Love yourself before you extend
to others. How can you give a piece of what you have if you don’t have enough
for yourself? That is the best thing to think of.
Time is
Gold
Be wise
enough to think how much time you will consume when you say YES to everyone.
You have to exert your effort, your time, and of course sometime your money
just because you already commit yourself.
Set
priorities
Is this an
important matter that you need to focus on? Do you need to prioritize this
because you said YES to someone and need to do it for them. Saying No is one of
your priority to do to make things better for you and for everyone.
Saying No
to others is at the other hand saying Yes to yourself. Be responsible enough to
think before you agree to disagree. Manage every situation you face and you
will understand why you rejected someone or something being offered to you.
Saying No
is being YOU!
Taking your
time will also let you think that you don’t need to explain what you really
want and need. It’s ok not to get that call from a friend who ask for you to
say Yes. You have the right to say No anyway. This does not mean you are mean.
This only shows that you have your own time to check on yourself before
checking on their lives.
