Inspiration thoughts, quotes, prayers, music and songs for everyone.
Life is
doing the best we can, to have a house to live, a food we eat, a job, to
complete our bucket list, make a to do list, earn more, and become successful.
Being perfect doesn’t give you happiness and being happy doesn’t make your life
perfect. Perfection lies behind your perception.
They say
money makes you happy. People who are rich have a mansion, a nice car, a
luxurious vacation, yet their relationship with other people failed.
They say a
man who married his dream girl and lived with her doesn’t have a happily ever
after.
You cannot
say a perfect life is what you are longing for. Every day we face different situation that
teaches us and it is our stepping stone to learn and make our life better.
We have to accept
that:
·
Your
to do list will never be complete. You will complete your first 5 or 10 to do
list then another set will be added.
·
Some
things will not go according to your plan always
·
Please
tell me if someone has a perfect life? No one ever.
·
You’re
doing the best you can. You will be fine with what you have.
·
Your
happiness is all that matters. If you are happy of what you have done, then be
it. If you are happy of what you got, then accept it.
Happiness
is a choice. You will find yourself feeling miserable when you did not reach
the kind of happiness you want to be. You cannot be as happy as your neighbor if
you saw him having his new car in his garage. Just be happy and everything
follows perfectly in this imperfect world.
A simple
example of this is when you have an exam and you need to review the day before
the exam. You have mistakes and your teacher showed how to make it right. Your
teacher gave you another chance to redo the exam yet you still made your own
solution to the wrong answers you made. This mistake is your decision. You have
a chance to make it right yet you still did the same mistake from the past.
Mistakes
are a part of everyone’s learning process and it is up to us on how we can
handle this. It is natural for a human being to make mistakes and it does come
to us unexpectedly. In every situation we have, we must admin every mistake we
commit. Admitting it will definitely help us understand why we did mistake and
how to overcome this mistake.
From a
quote “One is enough, Two is too much”, we keep on making the same mistake but
we don’t realize why this became a cycle and part of our life. Let us just make
an action to make it right.
Sometimes you should learn to say NO without explaining.
For some it
is so hard to reject other people because you are thinking they may get mad.
Why you have to think of what they feel if they don’t even think of what you
really feel. No need to explain if they don’t even tend to understand you.
Think of
yourself
They say
you are selfish if you only think of yourself. Love yourself before you extend
to others. How can you give a piece of what you have if you don’t have enough
for yourself? That is the best thing to think of.
Time is
Gold
Be wise
enough to think how much time you will consume when you say YES to everyone.
You have to exert your effort, your time, and of course sometime your money
just because you already commit yourself.
Set
priorities
Is this an
important matter that you need to focus on? Do you need to prioritize this
because you said YES to someone and need to do it for them. Saying No is one of
your priority to do to make things better for you and for everyone.
Saying No
to others is at the other hand saying Yes to yourself. Be responsible enough to
think before you agree to disagree. Manage every situation you face and you
will understand why you rejected someone or something being offered to you.
Saying No
is being YOU!
Taking your
time will also let you think that you don’t need to explain what you really
want and need. It’s ok not to get that call from a friend who ask for you to
say Yes. You have the right to say No anyway. This does not mean you are mean.
This only shows that you have your own time to check on yourself before
checking on their lives.
They tell
you to be YOURSELF… Then they judge you!
People want
you to be your true version of you then will definitely judge you. We live in
an imperfect world. You don’t need to prove to other people who you are and
what you really want to be. It is just a matter of how people will accept you
for what you show them.
These are
the only simple things you should do:
Be kind
No matter
how the world is rough on you, always stay humble and kind to everyone. People
will judge you anyway. You cannot please everyone but at least you showed them
good character of you.
Be Yourself
You don’t
need to pretend to be someone else just to be part of a circle of friends. You
don’t need someone to tell you what you have to so they will not judge you. Be
true to yourself and you will find people who will like you and genuinely would
like to be with you.
Think
differently
People will
judge you with they see and what they only know. Being yourself is not about
everyone liking you. It is about liking yourself. It is about you who want to
show the world of being a normal you and that makes you happy.
Haters gonna hate
They will judge you until they want. You spend your life pleasing
everyone not to judge you but you cannot fool yourself your whole life living
like this. As long as you are happy of
what you are doing and not hurting anyone, you are good at it.
Problem
comes in life everyday shoot them instead of run away.
They
said God gave us this kind of problem because he knows you can solve it.
Everyday we were given struggles in life we need to face. Instead of
complaining about it, why not think of solution so you can move on other
things.
Problems
become more difficult when there are no other solutions and choices to solve
it. There are many strategies to do it, here they are:
Source
of problem
Can
you solve the problem with the help of where it came from. Identify how does
this problem was form so you know what is the next step to do.
Bring
it up
Ask
for help from reliable people you trust. If you think you cannot solve it on
your own, seek help from the experts or from your loved ones so they can give you
advice or any piece of help. Your negative emotion will make you more exhausted
so think of positive ways to reach out to others.
Keep
it right
Don’t
make another problem just to solve your problem. You are just adding another
stress in your life. Instead, think of better ways you can minimize this kind
of struggle in your life until you find a better way to solve this.
Embrace
it
There
are problems that you just let it be. Let time heal and solve it. Move on.
There are also problems that need to be solved in a short span of time. Accept
it. Be responsible enough to make an action to solve it.
Take time to think and relax. Always remember everything is under your control.
Don't
compare yourself to others, compare it from your past.
You
know it is easy to say but hard to do. If you always see others they have
better life, better house, better car, or any better things in their life you
always compare them to yourself.
Comparing
makes you feel unloved and unhappy. It
leads to hating other people or hating yourself. The same as focusing on your
past makes you feel sad. But it is better to focus on your past, present and
future instead of thinking of other people’s lives.
The
more you focus on your own, the more you are in control.
Mind
you own
When
you are focused on yourself, you will realize better ideas to grow. Instead of
wasting your time comparing yourself to others and some copying them, spend
time investing and make yourself busy on earning more skills and money so you
can be better you.
Accept
your past
Accept
your past so you can move on for your future. Instead of fighting and resisting
things you cannot change, let it be in peace. Make your past as your
inspiration to grow and nourish it as you come along your path to your success.
Make right decision and do not make the same mistakes you made from the past. Embrace your past and think these are pages
and chapters of your life that made you stronger today.
Comparison
into Inspiration
Make
comparing in a positive way. You cannot remove comparing to others but you can
turn it into a positive perspective to make a positive result. If you compare
your lifestyle to someone you know, you can say I can do it too. Make every
single steps of your life as simple as possible so it won’t complicate you in
the long run.
Focus.. focus.. focus
Focus
on your career, your family, your hobby and also your belongings. This will
guide you to stand out from others you are trying comparing yourself. Being who
you are matters. Unless you are not hurting other people, just go on and make
everyday a better you.
It is easier to Build a Strong child than to repair a broken man.
Build
a strong foundation of your children. While you are in control of your
children, mold them in a way that you know they will be a better person when
they grow up. You cannot bring back the childhood of a person. Give your
children the right building blocks for them to carry in the journey of their
life. Showing your love everyday will give them the security and self esteem
they need. Teach them to love and respect people around them. Always put God as
the center of your family.
Be
a model of your children. They copy what they see in you. Show them good deeds
and let them do it to others. When they grow old, you can never control their
life and tell them what to do. So while they are dependent to you, give your
best shot. Discipline them if needed.
